I’m sure you’ve heard the term “wife material.” Per urban dictionary (I know, I know…), that means “a girl you would consider perfect enough to marry one day.” Of course I’ve given this some thought because I write about dating… Read More ›
Singles
Well, well, well – Idris Elba or Nah?
I almost didn’t show up last night. He lives in Europe. I live in the states. A chance meeting brought us together in Manhattan during his business trip, but what could possibly come of it? My thoughts were scattered :… Read More ›
Mr. Dallas Wants to Pursue Me
We met online almost a year ago. My first thoughts centered on the hyperpigmentation on his cheekbones, his short neck, and tiny, pursed lips. His head and shoulders seemed to meet with not even a couple of inches in between…. Read More ›
I Think I Might Be a Man Lover
The single life goes by quick! Three years, and counting. And that’s a fact! I can’t really sum the experience up in one line (yet), but I can say that life, for me, is all about transformation and growth…. Read More ›
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›
Why Men Loathe Desperate Women
“Women are so desperate and aggressive these days. It’s sad. They wanna latch on after two weeks and start staking their claim. Bringing up the future and marriage. I like to be the one who’s doing the pursuing.” … Read More ›
Should I Bank On Him?
Question of the day: I went to the bank earlier today to handle some business for my mother. The Relationship Manager was CUTE. I’m makeup free today, but of course he still had that mouth-wide-open look in his eyes. He… Read More ›
Still Dating – The Latest Latest
Lately I’ve kept you guys completely out of the loop as far as my dating life. No worries. There haven’t been any fireworks. At all. Here’s a brief rundown. I wrote about Nigel in this piece. Based on my fantasy… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 