Always remember, what’s a natural progression for you may be totally different or out of sync for someone else. Remember Oprah considered marrying her long-time beau Steadman Graham because after decades of dating, taking their relationship to the “next level”… Read More ›
Birthday Cards from My Ex
I spent eleven years with my ex “M.” And every time I’m on a cleaning spree, (Today I’m going through old magazines – I have a collection. Smh.) I find cards from him (birthday, mother’s day, etc.). At the time,… Read More ›
Can You Pay My BILLS? No? Well You Are Not a Real Man.
Is it true that a man is only a real man if he can take care of his woman financially and provide for all her needs (I.e. bills, clothes, food, shelter, incidentals, etc.)? Never mind if he’s abusive. Can he… Read More ›
Where is the Proposal, the Ring, the Children – and My Phone Call? (Convos with Friends)
I caught up with a friend yesterday at Bill’s Bar and Burger in Rockefeller Center (New York City!) This is a pic of my doable, but plain house salad topped with a veggie patty (I’m counting calories). I did drizzle… Read More ›
5 Key Dating Tips for Single Women
How much success have you had in your dating life? Is it rewarding? Fun? Have you found love? First off, contrary to what many women have conditioned themselves to believe, there are tons of great men out there. And still,… Read More ›
Question of the Day – Should I Do What’s “Right?”
Hi guys! Please help me answer this question from one of my readers: [In a relationship, marriage, or even as a single person], Should you chose what’s “right” — or what feels good when it comes to your emotional well… Read More ›
I’m Engaged! Haters Gonna Hate?
I would imagine that if or when I’m really engaged, people in my (very small) circle would be happy for me. Actually, I’m sure they would. But, tbh (to be honest), we all know people who can only muster up… Read More ›
Creepy Ass Liar – No Date
It’s no surprise that I met a guy, right? Where else but Times Square, New York City? Of course I was kinda mean mugging because it’s cold as hell. (Weather kicking my ass.) When Clyde approached, my gut told me… Read More ›