Ever heard the theory that men want “a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed?” Surely, you have. Well, I have a question. What exactly does a freak do that a non-freak (or plain vanilla partner) might… Read More ›
I Give In
I give in to the larger part of me that wants to taste him, touch him, smell him, look at him! – caress him, listen to him moan and see him wriggle with pleasure. Savor the inflections in his voice,… Read More ›
Last Sunday I Posed Nude – Despite Being Fat Shamed by My Trainer
Well, not fully nude, but almost. For one segment of the shoot, I wore this rust colored tunic with high side slits and no panties. Posed on a bed with my legs and hips exposed – something like this. I… Read More ›
Mr. Dallas Wants to Pursue Me
We met online almost a year ago. My first thoughts centered on the hyperpigmentation on his cheekbones, his short neck, and tiny, pursed lips. His head and shoulders seemed to meet with not even a couple of inches in between…. Read More ›
Choke Me and I’ll Choke Your Ass Back
Women being dominated in the bedroom
Why Can’t I Just Love Black Men?
“Have you ever dated anybody other than black men?” I’m learning that’s a pretty normal question in the dating world — from black men, because that’s all I’ve ever dated. When I tell them I haven’t, I get strange looks…. Read More ›
How to Handle Honest Men | 5 Tips For Women
Remember the three men I met last week? They turned out to be HONEST in their intentions, of all things. I’ve been saying honesty is the best game for a while now. (If only more men took heed.) Here’s the… Read More ›
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›