I’m gonna answer this question and throw up a poll to see if you agree. No. No, he isn’t interested. I know this and yet I still find myself scratching my head when a man proclaims interest, but has this… Read More ›
Dating
Getting Married | How Long Should One Wait for a Proposal?
I’ve given plenty of advice on this blog, especially during my serial dating stint: Six Key Pieces of Dating Advice for Single Men Five Key Dating Tips for Single Women Five Unusual Tips for a Successful Long Distance Relationship How… Read More ›
Happy Friday! I Still Love Black Men.
Eventful week for me. Somewhat. I won’t rehash the details. Oh – two great things though. My daughter turned 22 yesterday. And I met up with a friend who I see on average, twice a year. I always rejoice in… Read More ›
Natural Progression in Relationships | Do What’s Right For You
Always remember, what’s a natural progression for you may be totally different or out of sync for someone else. Remember Oprah considered marrying her long-time beau Steadman Graham because after decades of dating, taking their relationship to the “next level”… Read More ›
The Dating Game – How Three Years of One-Off Dates Helped Shape My Perspective on Marriage
To be honest, I thought all those one off dates would somehow lead to marriage. I thought that three years of the single life and being super picky about who I spent time with would help me refine my tastes… Read More ›
Should Your Man Be Super Tight with His Ex?
You meet a great man, and he ticks all the boxes on your list – he’s the right height, the right shape, smart, handsome, well dressed, well traveled and then some – anything you’ve envisioned. And — he has an… Read More ›
Unconditional Love – Doesn’t It Start with Love of Self?
What’s been going on lately? I feel like I’m chugging along, having revelation after revelation about myself and like sharing it all would sound absolutely crazy. It would. You know how you go through all this growth and then look… Read More ›
Can You Pay My BILLS? No? Well You Are Not a Real Man.
Is it true that a man is only a real man if he can take care of his woman financially and provide for all her needs (I.e. bills, clothes, food, shelter, incidentals, etc.)? Never mind if he’s abusive. Can he… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 