I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.
Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.
What I’ve learned is that you cannot help a person in crisis if you bring yourself to where they are emotionally. What value are you in that moment if you start passing out and whaling louder than the person who… Read More ›
The Randomness – My Life 04192017
It’s Wednesday and I’m feeling random. 🤔 * At one point, I decided I wanted to “go vegan.” I changed my mind. If I ever get a craving for chicken or ice cream (and I rarely eat ice cream), I… Read More ›
Catch Me – I’m Falling For You
I may be extremely late to the party – to those of you who listen to R&B/ soul singer Leela James. I literally “discovered her” on Amazon Music the other day and fell in love with this song Fall For You…. Read More ›
My Sunshine Has Come – A Reminder From My Son
Last night, my son was downstairs washing dishes (yes, by hand), playing tons of oldies from the 90s and early 2000’s. Next thing, I heard Angie Stone’s No more Rain (In This Cloud). I texted him: “Do you remember me… Read More ›
Take a Ride That Thrills You
Take a ride that thrills you, or get beat up by the waves. You get to choose. -Abraham Hicks It’s a rare occasion that you’ll hear me complain about anything work related. I know exactly why I’m still here after… Read More ›
What Does A Freak Do?
Ever heard the theory that men want “a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed?” Surely, you have. Well, I have a question. What exactly does a freak do that a non-freak (or plain vanilla partner) might… Read More ›
Thanks Guys! (A Blogging Milestone)
It’s been a bit of a challenge lately for me to build meaningful dialogue with you – even though so many things are going well. Isn’t it just like that sometimes? One of the means I always have to brighten… Read More ›
All Men Don’t Like It Bare
It always strikes me as odd when I talk to women friends who assume all men like a bare vagina. At the mention that some men either prefer hair down there or don’t care one way or the other, ladies… Read More ›