I met this guy who tells me at least five times a day that I’m controlling. I say, if he can’t handle it, doesn’t appreciate it, or feel that my character is too flawed – he should have several seats.

Basically, I lost patience with him. Told him, “run when you see big red flags.” (And if you’re hell-bent on getting to know me, take it down about ten notches.)

Because I’ll tell you what. I won’t let ANYONE aggravate the hell out of me if I can control it by giving them the axe. Bye!

This is not a denial about my bossiness.

(There’s a certain type of man that makes me melt. It ain’t him.)

Choose your friends and relationships carefully. If you find yourself constantly complaining about someone you just met, reconsider giving them a role in your life.

Who needs stress and aggravation?

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31 replies

  1. Like you said, you will get in line for the right dude. Unfortunately, a lot of men are just not ready to be leaders so they tell women they’re controlling. If he stepped to you on some leadership shit, you wouldn’t be controlling. You’re only going to get what you allow.

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  2. Only a weak man can say a woman is controlling. It takes a certain kind of man to be with a strong/independent woman and if you are in your feelings all of the time about me “being controlling” you are worried about the wrong thing mister hmph. I agree with “The Reemachronicles” 100%.


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